Disappointment Dissolved

Picture this: you’re at the gym, lifting weights. Initially, it’s manageable, but as you add more and more, the burden becomes too heavy to lift. Disappointment can be much the same. When we don’t address our disappointments, they accumulate, creating a heaviness that affects our spirit. The good news is that today, God wants to help us break free from that burden.

In John 11, we see the story of Lazarus, a man who fell gravely ill. Mary and Martha, his sisters, sent word to Jesus, but He didn’t arrive in time, and Lazarus passed away. When Jesus finally came, Martha expressed her disappointment: “If only you had been here, my brother wouldn’t have died.” Both sisters were grieving, feeling let down by the very one they believed could have saved their brother.

This story illustrates a crucial point: delays can open the door to disappointment. When God doesn’t act on our timeline, we may start to question His love or His power. It’s essential to remember that God’s delays don’t diminish His character or His plans for us. He is still faithful, even in our waiting.

We’ve all experienced delays in our lives. Maybe you’re waiting for a job opportunity, a healing, or a relationship to mend. It’s in these moments that disappointment can creep in. But let’s not let these feelings rob us of our faith. God is still at work, even when we can’t see it.

Disappointment often stems from our relationships. We have expectations of others, and when they fail to meet those expectations, we feel let down. Both Mary and Martha expressed their sorrow to Jesus, reflecting how disappointment can strain even our closest relationships.

However, it’s vital not to let disappointment fester into resentment or bitterness. We need to address it, talk about it, and forgive. Forgiveness can be a powerful tool in healing relationships and preventing disappointment from taking root.

Interestingly, while Jesus didn’t explicitly state He was disappointed, the scripture mentions He was “deeply troubled” and even wept. His emotions were a response to the pain around Him. He understood the weight of disappointment that Martha and Mary felt, yet He also knew the power He possessed to turn the situation around.

In our moments of disappointment, we must remember that Jesus is our hope and our healer. He wants us to bring our burdens to Him. In Isaiah 55:8-9, we are reminded that God’s ways and thoughts are higher than ours. When things don’t unfold as we expected, we can trust that God has a bigger plan.

In Matthew 11:28-30, Jesus invites us to find rest in Him. He offers refreshment and healing for our weary souls. Today, if you’re carrying disappointment—whether in God, relationships, or circumstances—know that you are not alone. God is with you, ready to lift that burden and fill you with renewed faith.

Embrace this season as a time of renewal and abundance, knowing that God is turning things around for you. You are loved, you are cared for, and you are never alone in your journey. Let’s dissolve disappointment and step into the freedom that comes from faith!